Sarah Owen Bigler was hoping for a quick and easy trip to Target. She had a long day at work, her husband was sick and she had just picked up her kids from school and the sitter. So when she was ready to head to the checkout line, she picked the one with only one person in it, hoping it would be fast. However, the customer in front of her was an elderly woman, who not only had a lot of items, but she wanted to pay for each item individually with change.
Sarah’s first instinct was to get upset and impatient, but then she noticed how the young employee with the older woman were interacting and she realized something, something beautiful.
Sarah posted her wonderful story to Facebook afterwards:
“Yesterday Matt was sick. I picked up Archie from the sitter and Eloise from school and decided to run to Target for a few things. I had hoped to be in and out quickly.
“I found a line with just one person ahead of me and began organizing my items on the conveyor. After placing my items, I look up to see that the person ahead of me was an elderly woman. She was paying for her items with change and wanted to purchase each separately. Part of me, the part that had a long day at work, the part of me who had a 1 1/2 year old having a melt down in the cart, the part that had set an unnecessary timeline for Target and getting home, was frustrated with this woman and the inconvenience she had placed on me.
“BUT then I watched the young employee with this woman. I watched him help her count her change, ever so tenderly taking it from her shaking hands. I listened to him repeatedly saying “yes, mam” to her. When she asked if she had enough to buy a reusable bag, he told her she did and went two lines over to get one for her and then repackaged her items. Never once did this employee huff, gruff or roll his eyes. He was nothing but patient and kind.”
“As I was watching him, I saw that Eloise was too. She was standing next to the woman, watching the employee count the change. I realized I hadn’t been inconvenienced at all. That my daughter was instead witnessing kindness and patience and being taught this valuable lesson by a complete stranger; furthermore, I realized that I too needed a refresher on this lesson.
“When the woman was finished, the employee began ringing up my items and thanked me for my patience. I then thanked him for teaching us patience and kindness by his treatment of that elderly woman. And although my timeline for target was askew, when he was finished I pushed my cart through the store trying to find the manager. I wanted her to know of the employee’s, kindness and patience, and how much it meant to me. After tracking her down and sharing the story with her, we left Target with a cart full of consumable items, but what is more a heart full of gratitude for such an invaluable lesson.
“If you are ever in the Glendale Target, give Ishmael a smile and a nod. The world could use more people like him.”
It think it’s wonderful that instead of losing her patience and getting angry, Sarah remembered the value of patience and kindness and how it makes the world a better place for ourselves and for others.
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